Why It’s Great to Be Expensive and Difficult
Listen, ladies—we’ve been told to be *too much* our entire lives. Too loud, too emotional, too complicated, too picky... but what if I told you that being “expensive” and “difficult” is actually your superpower? Grab a coffee (or a glass of wine—no judgment), because we’re about to unpack why it’s time to fully embrace your high-maintenance glory.
Expensive Means You Know Your Worth 💎
Look, you don’t walk into Dollarama expecting Chanel, right? Exactly. Being “expensive” means you’ve got standards, baby! You know what you want, and you’re not settling for anything less. Whether it’s high-quality relationships, good skincare, or sushi that wasn’t rolled by someone’s cousin as a side hustle, you demand the best—and that’s *okay.*
Why shouldn’t you want things that make you feel amazing? Life is too short to settle for bad coffee, cheap shoes, and people who don’t text back. And if someone calls you “high maintenance”? Pfft. That just means they’re not used to quality.
Difficult Women Get Things Done 💥
Let’s be real—women who are labeled “difficult” are usually the ones asking the hard questions, setting boundaries, and refusing to take any BS. Difficult women don’t just let life happen to them; they *make* things happen. We’re the ones speaking up at meetings, sending food back when it’s cold, and ensuring that every tiny detail is handled to perfection.
Sure, being difficult means you might ruffle a few feathers. But guess what? Feathers grow back. People may not like it when we demand better, but they sure as heck respect it. And hey, the world needs a little more ruffling and a lot more women who aren’t afraid to say “no.”
Self-Love in Its Boldest Form ❤️
Being expensive and difficult isn’t about being selfish—it’s about loving yourself enough to know what you deserve and not apologizing for it. You’re not just surviving; you’re thriving. You’re setting the tone for how others treat you, which means your circle will be filled with the kind of people who celebrate, not tolerate, you.
I used to cringe when someone called me difficult or joked that I was “expensive.” Now? I wear it like a badge of honor. Because here’s the truth: When you stop dimming your light to make others comfortable, you shine brighter—and the right people will gravitate towards that glow.
So Here’s to Us ✨
Here’s to the women who order the extra guac, refuse to settle for mediocre, and have zero patience for anything less than stellar. We are not “too much.” We are *just enough*—for ourselves and for those who are lucky enough to know us.
Being expensive and difficult isn’t a flaw. It’s a lifestyle. And you know what? I’m proud to live it.
Now, if you’ll excuse me, I’ve got some organic, ethically-sourced, single-origin coffee to sip while I make a to-do list that will absolutely terrify my husband.
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Stay fabulous,
Kylie